- Dec 4, 2019
- Dec 4, 2019
the Problem of most of children and teenagers is in how to persuade parents to make something or to get something. For example, to convince parents that those permitted to go with friends somewhere, to buy a treasured bagatelle or to get pets, most often – a cat or a dog. And quite often occurs so that the father and mother refuse to take a puppy home. The child is upset, but from time to time after all tries to overpersuade them.
As psychologists assure, such behavior of the child is caused it by aspiration to care for someone or the shortage of attention from parents. To often get a pet try to ask for parents from those families where there is only one kid. If it is several of them, then they communicate among themselves and by that satisfy the need for attention.
Thus, before the parents having one child often there is a dilemma – to get a pet or to spend with the child more time. At the same time fathers and mothers should not hope that desire of the young family member to have the little friend will disappear over time. On the contrary, such requirement will only amplify.
So how to persuade parents to get a dog, a cat or any other pet? Most often children apply for a dog. The child in the circumstances should put a lot of effort to convince parents and to elicit at them a puppy. And the first rule of an arrangement of the father with mother is in showing the readiness for appearance of the pet in the house. Convince members of household of the reliability. The child has to show that it is possible to rely on him. And it is recommended to make it as follows:
Circumstances can develop so that children made a lot of efforts and persuaded the father with mother that those agreed to buy a puppy, but as a result the answer of parents was negative. You should not be capricious in such situation. It is better to show the maturity and to try to understand, than the refusal is motivated. And the reasons of it can consist in the following:
Acquisition of a pet is very responsible step both for parents, and for children.
The main thing in such situation – to talk to parents, giving reasonable arguments and also to prove the desire and readiness actions. And still … You should not disappoint the father and mother, having thrown and having forgotten about the pet after a while when, perhaps, the heat will die away and interest will be gone. As one of the famous writers, people in the answer for the one whom they tamed told.